Throughout life’s cooking art, food eating, hygiene etc, you find Men giving the loveliest compliments; the willingness to learn from Women and strong criticism from mothers. I want to pick on the Men. Some selected few though*Smiles*
Man was the first thought of humanity with skills, knowledge and intelligence deposited in him, he discovered his own food, and he combined different things in the garden to make a meal for himself. The first meal his woman ever had, was put together by him, he gave her foundational training on what to put together to get them satisfied, he was in charge of making sure they had the right meals……
So why did Man change? “it was the forbidden fruit”? Not the fruit because the woman hasn't changed till now!!!!
Few questions about your habits, Men…..
Why don’t you like cooking?
Why don’t you pack your plates after eating and wash them?
Why do you sit and let your woman bring you soap and water to wash your hands after eating?
Fair enough some Men rinse the plate and return it!!...what happened to using soap and sponge?
Why would you rinse a cup after use and place it back like it’s clean?
I am not putting an axe to anyone’s head; I just want to understand this pattern of thought!!!
As food is to all, cooking is to all,
As using plate is to all, washing is to all……including your hands in the appropriate place. It’s really advisable not to burden your Woman and be considerate. Learn the art of cooking; make it an attitude if possible.
Strong opinion though but there’s nothing as good as a Woman knowing her better half can also manifest in the kitchen.
I for one like to spoil my Man, I am ready to cook him 50 shades of anything he wants to eat. BING!!!! So does every other woman who can cook well. But men have to also step up…women like meals being cooked for them and they appreciate you packing your plates and washing them after eating, it’s a sign of selflessness and consideration, it means thank you for being my Woman. That gesture lingers on and she keeps being selfless to you more. Most women look forward to tasting the different meals their men can create in the kitchen so far it smells nice and looks healthy they will eat.
There are times when the best cooks go wrong, it gets salty or just don’t taste right, rather than condemn and just look scornful, take over the kitchen and give your woman a break. Every woman likes a competition, give her two days and she wants her kitchen back. Don’t just walk out on the food, or grumble till you finish the last grain
It’s good to get involved in some of the things your woman does for you, it doesn't make you less of a man, you are only being the man of her dreams. And when you help please don't pass comments like “how many Men would do this”, Your comments should be "i always want to make you happy".